One of the, as it seems to me, most important lessons I am learning writing online, is how to use the appropriate tone. I have noted that my tone is often too preachy and stern than is appropriate. I feel it would be much better if I sounded much more friendlier and approachable. I should perhaps investigate how one gets his tone, but I am pretty sure it is coloured heavily by the sort of thing one reads, and the sort of way one thinks about his audience. I have so much to learn. And, grow.